Getting past the Issues
Last week, I went to a friend of mine who is a colleague-therapist and specializes in the EMDR procedure. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) basically consists of stimulating as much of the brain... More »
Last week, I went to a friend of mine who is a colleague-therapist and specializes in the EMDR procedure. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) basically consists of stimulating as much of the brain... More »
It is Mother's Day today and it bothers me. Last Friday I heard someone refer to it and it bothered me more than I thought. I never looked forward to Mother's Day in the past,... More »
Last Tuesday night, my mother died after a long and brave battle against the inevitable. Today, we buried her body, that she left behind and held a remembrance service for her. At that service, I... More »
That my mother will survive in reasonable health and make it to see the new year. As you may have read in previous blog entries, my mum is suffering from lung cancer and is currently... More »
This is the fifth and final part of the Coping with Loss paper. Previous parts have been published earlier this month in this blog. You can download the complete text from my company's website: http://www.icc-vanderhaven.nl/artikelen/artikelen.html... More »
This is part 4 of the Coping with Loss paper. Previous parts have ben published earlier this month in this same blog. Before continuing with the fourth stage, I want to deal with some other... More »
This is part 3 of the Coping with Los paper. Previous parts have been published on 4 and 7 September. Second Stage This stage follows the first stage, meaning that logically, you should have gone... More »
This is the second part of the "Coping with Loss" paper. The previous part was published on September 4th in this blog. I will only use the common male form from now on to keep... More »
This is the first part of a paper i am writing about how to deal with loss of a beloved and mourning from an Integral perspective. I will publish it in parts in this blog... More »
I have been quiet for a while, for I had to get accustomed to a new situation in life and then went on a three-weeks' holiday. Yes, the holiday was great, but sadly overshadowed by... More »